I, of course, would like to thank God for showing me the truth.
Some people just can't take a hint.
Some may say that I'm being picky
and
I say to them, my instinct is never wrong.
If people ever wonder why I'm still single,
they should ask why this kind of people exist.
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frying pan!! or dalam bahasa Brunei nya, parimpan.
hahaha
and I have never wanted to hit someone in the head with a frying pan before. until this movie.
I watched this new movie Pan at our local cinema,
starring Hugh Jackman who played Blackbeard.
It's a story about the beginning of Peter Pan. before that story where he met Wendy.
I wasn't expecting much when I watch Pan, so I find it very interesting and touchy, especially towards the end.
but it isn't about the movie that I decided to make a post of this
it was actually about some very offensive actions that some mother and daughter did that made me post this;
not even half thru the movie, these two people stood up and after that changed to the empty seats in front of their previous seats (we sat at the top most seat (Row A), basically the best seats and they changed to seat (Row B) ). and noticing their action, suddenly i was conscious.
It was the mother (who sat next to me) who stood up first and I saw they contemplated for a minute than took the row B seats. then Zawir was like, "Pindah duduk durang ah" and I said "Yeah" and remember feeling really offended and embarrassed.
Earlier before the movie, me and Zawir had our dinner at Burger King and our burgers had onion rings in it.
So, I was thinking, was it my breath? was it stinking too much for the mother to move seat?
or
was it my quiet laughter? yes, i have learned to control my 'barking' laugh to a quiet, shy laugh when I'm in the cinema.
Although I still enjoy the movie and was really into it, every time I cast my eyes to those two beings, it made me wonder what i did wrong?
I even almost confronted them when the movie ended! like, i was that embarrassed and did not appreciate their offensive manner!
But after that, as we walked out of the cinema, I thought, it's not me. it's just that mother being 'annoyed' with me somehow. She's the one with the problem, not me.
If I stink, I am sorry.
If i laugh too much or giggle at every little bit (coz I'm probably some crazy nutter who cannot control my imagination), I am not sorry for that.
Coz, lets face it 'mother' of someone. if you want peace and quiet while watching a movie in a public cinema, I suggest, you don't.
I suggest, it is better for you to watch them at home. later, when the HD version of the movie is release in DVD format, yeah?
Because what you did was very offensive. and no manner.
I know I am to blame if i have bad breath but if its because of my laughing, that's just..go home, woman!
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a/n: I could go on about how maybe she had some OCD and I shouldn't be saying things about her but still, I have never been so humiliated in public! and I am sure to go on about this again when I'm reminded of it. #MannersIsForAll
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Apparently Minho isn't the only easy target person in the world.
I found out that I am too.
Remember my previous post several weeks ago about me being tagged by 'someone' on IG?
Well, I got tagged again.
Like, -.-
I know the tagger's is just a kid. like, attacking me over such trivial thing even!
I wanted so much to reply back but then I'll be fueling such unnecessary feud.
like, do you even understand English to begin with?
seriously all these 'fans' are just plain stupid sometimes.
what do you even get trying to start an empty debate?
I wish there are some 'counseling' provided online for these 'trouble' souls. bless'em.
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Emotions run high today. or rather, kemarin.
It was the final day before the half-yearly bank closing etc plus we were all anxious about finishing our workload in fear that on Saturday would be the public holiday for Ramadhan.
Rude words were exchanged. Snide remarks shouted everywhere. Particularly from this woman from another unit. I admit that it was partly because of me being 'serious' to her. and when I was raising my voice to my juniors, 'the' woman screamed back to me. Well, she had her back at me but I knew it was meant for me. Macam, dude! Terasa plang di sana atu!
Panas lah hati ku. Malu pasal, luan jua inda betauliahnya bekeraja ani? I know tani satu department, tapi meneriaki cematu atu (walau cemana stress pun kau) kurang ajar bah tu. Besyukur ku kalau ku marah, aku prefer diam2 walaupun hati ku rasa kan teriak2. Satu, ko memalukn urg. Dua, ko memalukn diri sendiri.
Tapi lapas tu we were ok coz I asked her why she screamed so loud when I was raising my voice to my juniors. She said she couldn't remember why she screamed. I think, we both became adult there; eventhough kami tau what happened tapi we decided to let it go.
and then, I realised, in that place, we are all Dobby.
Yes, Dobby the HouseElf from Harry Potter series.
Why?
Because, We are slaved to the management. We hated them for being too cruel and even so we still love our job (and that overcome the shitty environment). At certain point we also defended them because they are our 'master'.
Macam Dobby kn? Slaved, mastered but we love our job. (I mean, I love my job and my routine. I just hate the environment)
of course, we are not bound for life at BBB.
I could just walk away but I have commitments to take care of. bukan urg kaya kn sanang2 beranti bila 'had enough'.
If only...
Anyway, I just thought of a phrase; memang bulih meminta maaf and memaafkan. tapi hati kalau sudah tersinggung, sampai mati pun masih ingat.
bak kata pepatah ong puteh, 'Forgive but Never Forget!'.
Yatah, kadang2, baik diam2. Kalau marah, jan luan ikut emosi and cakap suka2 hati or teriak suka2 hati. take a deep breath and think for a moment. Ingat, klu tani memalukan urg, bukn maruah urg sja gugur, meruah tani pun ikut gugur. Why? dah tani inda lagi terhormat kn urg, cemana urg kan hormat tani? Kan?
Ani untuk muhasabah diri ku jua. Kan aku ani pun pemental jua. tapi tujuh taun ku keraja, inda ku pernah meneriaki urg cematu. Sungguh kurang ajaran! Inda betauliah! Awu! sakit ati ku masih mengenangkannya. I know aku patut bersih kan hati pasal inda lagi batah Ramadhan tiba tapi..eh. adang tah. ada yg inda beraya karang taun ani. Hahaha ganas..
eh..baik tah..
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