I am definitely procrastinating. was composing my post regarding my make-up journey and then, got side tracked and here we are.
I came across a diary entry where I was talking about being strongly opinionated person. I've always been aware of this personality thread of mine but only tonight that I found out what it really means.
At first I feel bad when I see the word 'conceited' but when I scrolled down, I like that it mentions 'decisive' and 'can still be open-minded' which is definitely me. coz yeah, I will debate with you with points that I believe in and make you believe in them too but if you brought your case up with valid points, I'm sure I can have second thoughts. Empty debates are no welcome in my bubble. and when I said 'I can have second thoughts' does not mean I'm going to change my mind on what I believe in. that second thoughts are just options for me.
SOOOOO
when I saw this post
I know it was meant for me.
First of all, it was ironic that they posted this. Coz the post is talking about talking face to face when you have a problem instead of listening to a third party who might be 'poison'.
Like, 🙄 you know what you should do? Text me directly instead of posting that on social media.
Second of all, THE👏AU👏DA👏CI👏TY👏
You think other people 'poison' my judgement? I am my own person 👏 My opinion, my decision, and my 👏 entire 👏 well 👏 being 👏 IS 👏 MY 👏 OWN👏
So,
Instead of blaming other people on why I'm being like this, MAYBE, just maybe, look upon yourself? Find the answer there somewhere.
. . . .
I know, this escalate quickly. LOL but yeah, out of my system. so moving on.
Are you INFJ.. because being opinionated is like one of their trait? :O I guess? I have always been INFP by my core but my latest test (ytd) showed that I am borderline INFP - INFJ lollll so I just recently did my own INFJ research. I am still within the INFP though but since I moved Europe I become really assertive and I don't care perasaan orang much, I shedded that sungkan trait from our south asian culture.. :'D and I become more and more opinionated. It is mind blowing how do we become when we grow older, as in unconsciously we lean to one idealism..
ReplyDeleteYou know what? I thought I was INFJ but after reading this comment, I went and took the test thru Googling and guess what? I am not INFJ. and I'm kinda bumped. LOL
DeleteI really thought that I was! the description matched so well to how I feel/act.
but I guess you are right, circumstances change us as we grow older.
I'm INFP btw.
59% INFP and 41% INFJ
I wonder if should take the test again and change my answer, will I get to be INFJ? LOL