Mom is the kind of person who is so nice to other people even if that people was so damn mean to her in the past.
I could never understand her.
until I was a little bit older.
and recent events inspired me to make this post
1. Regarding work
no matter what personal hatred you have to your work mate, kerja tetap kerja. Think of your 'periuk nasi'. No one else will jaga that. so, peduli apa with what they say behind your back or whatever. bukan durang yg bagi ko gaji. So, maintain your work etiquette.
2. Relatives
you know how some cousins don't get along with each other? well, I have them too. and I know my family is not the only one yg ada this kind of relatives. but be kind. biar tia urg bejahat arah tani, jangan tani pun ikut bejahat jua. If like that, sama lah tani dengan durang. it's better to be remembered being the kind one than being remembered the opposite, right?
of course, I'm only human.
Being kind is a very exhausting.
not just mentally but spiritually as well.
I read this post for a quickie and I am so touched so I decided to write this comment on my work desktop!
ReplyDeleteYour mum is so amazing. I wish I have her compassion and kind heart. You know there are two types of people: the one who forgive and the one who take revenge. I am 100% a revenger and I always tell myself to forgive but I can't. It feels like I am not satisfied if I haven't seen the bad person 'suffer' ahahaha. I enjoy doing revenge. And I know it is not good Orz your mum inspires me to be kind and as you said, we are in responsibility with ourselves, don't care about other people jua!
I dont knownif i ever tell you this but i love it when u comment in Malay! 😍😍 Like, in this world of the net, seldom i see Malay. Hahah so thank u for that.
DeleteAnd thank u for all the kind things u commented. I'm sure your mom and dad and entire family are just as good of people as mine. And you are loved, Jess ;)