I remember in one of my Team Building workshop, the facilitator mentioned about 'Pointing Finger'.
What I understood at that time was he was talking about blaming others but yourself.
He showed us this gesture
You see, when you point at someone, one finger is pointing to them, while three fingers are pointing at yourself.
In other words,
don't be easy to point faults in others. you might be at fault too.
Just something I've been thinking a lot.
and stop thinking that this post is dedicated to someone.
I'm only posting this to reflect upon myself.
or am I?
LOL
but really, I've been so angry with a lot of people right now, and I think it's becoming a problem with me. mentally and physically.
it's not good.
and that 'pointing finger' thing pops up in my head.
it calms me down, little by little.
When you realized that you are not that perfect too, this 'gelora di jiwa' is not so worth it.
coz there's just no point on getting work up over everything.
and that's all I'm gonna say,
I have a lot on my plate right now, I can't be bother taking care of everybody else.
. . .
Do you literally 'point finger' at people there? :O Here we are taught it is very impolite.. #random anyway, I avoid pointing people ('blaming') all the time because I dislike to be pointed too.. I like this perceptive that 1 finger point at this person but 3 fingers pointing at you bcs, when ppl point at me like this I can say: look at your hand, who are you pointing to? Haha :D
ReplyDeleteI often consider myself as not perfect and I am so common, I am just like everybody else.. but now I think more about it, then who will tell us that we are perfect? We won't wait for such ppl to tell us that.. We need to tell ourselves we are better than what we think and we deserve more.. #SelfCheers
Nooooo...i think our culture is the same. Its very rude to point at people here too. I only meant as in ‘blaming others’. :D
DeleteI love your : we need to tell ourselves that we are better than we think we are and we deserve more *thumbs* although, i think, that is easier said than done :s
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