I wrote on my FB status few days ago and goes;
I guess if you wanted to do it, you would've done it
then
There's a also a famous malay proverb:
Nak Hendak Seribu Daya, Tak Hendak Seribu Dalih.
and
Here comes the English's one;
When There's a Will, There's a Way
These three quotes or saying have been running thru my mind lately.
When I posted that FB status, I was feeling done and accepting the situation I was in.
the next two was me trying to motivate myself.
*shrug*
I don't wana go back to how I was few months back but people disappoint.
. . .
I watched one video online that every time we are reborn--the past is dead and we are not supposed to go back to the past. The best thing is to enjoy today and move on. So....... Don't listen to everyone, don't go back to the past. I am not the type that like to read old messages to remember the past/being nostalgic because I have the tendency to be sadder Idk why. After I watched the video, I then compare the past with my present--which I then realise that this is one of my unhappiness cause. The more we try to reminisce our past, the further we are from it--which results in we tend to 'change' how past was, to be something better than the real past itself. This makes us crave for the better present--which leads to high expectation--which leads to more disappointment.
ReplyDeleteI believe you can see this video on a Facebook page of Xandria Ooi! I watch her vids every morning :) I agree with some, the ones I related with.
Oh! I watched some her videos before too..mostly regarding work place environment issues..she's really good!
DeleteYou were right, we must not dwell so much into the past. But kan..i still human and i always hold grudges and remember the pass well hahahahaa..
I am trying so hard to more completely forward though hehehe
Uh you know what, I hold grudges all the time I bring it to my graveyard!! Hahahaha.. I know, guilty pleasure, I want to move on but I enjoy holding grudges. I guess I am slightly maso-sadistic D:
ReplyDeleteI am trying so hard to!! Hwaitingg!
Hahaha hwaiting to the both of xD
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